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How to maintain better relationship between Couples

Posted on 24. Dec, 2009 by admin.

Keeping intimate relationship alive requires strength, motivation, and a little something called love.

We are guilty of basing our romantic beliefs on fairytales.

The problem with happily ever after is there’s more to ever after than meets the eye. To hold on to Prince Charming, Snow White has to be willing to do more than sing with the bluebirds.

If you are willing to put forth the effort to keep your relationship alive, then developing the following seven habits will help you become one of those highly successful couples.

HABIT #1 – GIVE EACH OTHER PLEASURE

Your goal in the relationship is to give each other pleasure, not to cause pain. Simple, isn’t it?
However… for just a single day, become consciously aware of everything you do, by asking yourself the question, “Is what I’m about to do or say going to cause my partner pain or pleasure?”

To help you, each of you should make two lists: one for all the things your partner does that hurt you, and another for all that you’d like your partner to do to give you pleasure.
Swap lists, and now you know exactly what to do and what not to do. No more guessing!

HABIT #2 – CREATE LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP RITUALS

We fall in love through rituals of connection and intimacy such as romantic dinners, long conversations, riding bicycles or going for walks, exchanging gifts, talking every night on the telephone…

When we fall in love our relationship becomes the center point of our life, with anything else becoming secondary.

Over time, when the relationship becomes more settled (particularly after we have children), this process reverses.
The children, our work, our hobbies, our friends – take the center stage and the relationship being relegated to the background tending only to receive our attention in times of crisis.

The remedy to routine (the main cause of dull relationships) is connection and intimacy rituals.

For example, every Saturday evening, as a changeover from the working week into the weekend, take two hours together when you put a “do not disturb” sign on your busy life.
No phones, no answered doors, no e-mails, no TV, nothing…
Just the two of you and your relationship.
Do what you will with the time, however it must be an investment in your relationship.

HABIT #3 – CREATE A SAFE SPACE FOR OPEN AND HONEST SHARING

Create a sense of safety and acceptance that allows each of you to express your feelings, problems, expectations and disappointments.

One of our connection rituals is a process called “Clearing” that creates this atmosphere of safety and acceptance.

EVERY NIGHT before we go to sleep, we ask each other “what DID NOT work for you today?”
We give each other a chance to share about all the things that went “wrong” during the day (whether connected to the relationship or not).
If there are any solutions that we can mutually agree upon to assist with improvements for the future, we raise the issue.

When both of us are complete, we initiate a second round, in which we ask each other “what DID work for you today?”
This is our opportunity to share about all the goodness that we’ve experienced during the day, as well as acknowledge each other (and others) for the support and love we’ve received.

HABIT #4 – WORK TOGETHER TO RESOLVE CONFLICT AND CRISIS

The problem with the way most couples argue is that they attempt to find solutions before allowing each other the chance to say what they need to say.

The “Council” process ensures that before you engage in solution talk, each one of you feels you have been fully heard.

Here’s how it can be made to work in the practice:
One person holds an object in their hand, called the “Talking Piece”, which symbolizes that he or she has the floor.
While one person has the floor, the other person is allowed only to listen without interruption.

When speaking, you should focus on speaking from your heart (emotional, spontaneous, instinctive as opposed to mental).

When listening, you are encouraged to listen from your heart (i.e. from acceptance and compassion).

Only after each person has been fully “heard,” (in case it is still necessary) continue through to the process of problem solving.

HABIT #5 – TURN TOWARD EACH OTHER, RATHER THAN AWAY

When you pass your lover during the course of a day, do you stop and rub their shoulder, give them a kiss on the cheek, and whisper something nice in their ear – or do you just walk on by?

This is the meaning of “turning toward” as opposed to “turning away.”

Turning toward each other means making each other your number one priority.

Make sure to find ways to be physically and emotionally close to each other, such as doing things together that you both enjoy. Take walks together, drink coffee together after dinner, listen to music together…

HABIT #6 – SCHEDULE TIME FOR LOVE

Want to improve your sex life? Here’s one of the most profound pieces of advice I can give you: SCHEDULE IT!

Doesn’t sound very romantic, I know. But it works.

Waiting for that “magic moment” when you’re both “in the mood” may be romantic, but it’s not always practical. We all have had times when we were waiting and waiting and… waiting.

Plan in the morning to make love that night. Call each other all day long with reminders, ideas and seductive suggestions.
By the time evening rolls around you’ll both feel like you’ve engaged in foreplay all day long – and you’ll be ready for an exciting night!

HABIT #7 – CREATE MEANING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Think about it, besides having fun, what else would you like to do together in the coming 40 years?

We all need meaning in our lives.

You will enrich your relationship by sharing meaningful experiences with each other. The ultimate in meaning is to share a common philosophy of life and life purpose.
This is why couples who choose a path of personal-growth or spirituality together, have great source of meaning in their lives.

When you practice these seven habits intentionally and consistently, you’ll re-create every day a loving, fulfilling and long-lasting relationship.

It’s easy – give it a try…

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A Technique Used by Antivirus Programes

Posted on 20. Dec, 2009 by admin.

A Technique Used by Antivirus Programes
In past when a virus was released it was detected by antivirus experts after 15-30 days. Till then virus had done enough damage to millions of users like “I love you worm”. Then antivirus experts started using a new technology.

In this technology , when a certain files does specious activity in computer, Av program does not perform any action and keep eye on that file. Next, when you update your antivirus these files are send to security experts of antivirus that you are using. Some time you have to submit that files manually by selecting those specious files and then clicking “Submit” (An option in Antivirus Program). Malware analysts analyze the file, if it is a virus then they make it’s signatures. By this a virus is caught with in 3-4 days and less damage is done.

Antivirus Using these Technique:-
May be some other antivirus vendors also use this technique but i know these.
Eset Nod32 (Threat Sense Engine)
Bitdefender 10
Norton Antivirus 2009

So A bad new for malware writers but to counter this many malware writers try to delete and disable Antivirus programs. A simple example is “Avkiller.Trojan”. Let discuss little bit more about this Trojan.
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Avkiller.Trojan is written in Delphi. It is usually UPX packed. The unpacked size is approximately 34 KB. It adds the value to start every time when PC Starts.

MSWindows C:\windows\spool16.exe

to the registry key

HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Microsoft\Windows\CurrentVersion\Run\

This Trojan horse also terminates antivirus programs and services; for example:
Zonealarm.exe
Zapro.exe
Vsmon
Minilog
Minilog.exe
Vsmon.exe
Svw3
Blackice
Blackd.exe
Blackice.exe
Nisum
Nisserv
Nisum.exe
Nisserv.exe
Nmain.exe
Iamapp.exe
Iamserv.exe
Frw.exe
Persfw.exe
Lockdown.exe
Lockdown2000.exe
Sphinx.exe
Nprotect.exe
Ndd32.exe
Smc.exe
Netutils.exe
Ldnetmon.exe
Portmonitor.exe
Connectionmonitor.exe
Cpd.exe
Defwatch.exe
Rtvscn95.exe
Vpc32.exe
Vptray.exe
Poproxy.exe
_Avp32.exe
_Avpcc.exe
_Avpm.exe
Avpcc.exe
Avpm.exe
Avp.exe
Nav Alert
Nav Auto-Protect
Navapw32.exe
Alertsvc.exe
Navapsvc.exe
Navlu32.exe
Navw32.exe
Sweepnet
Sweepsrv.Sys
Swnetsup.exe
Icload95.exe
Icmon.exe
Icsupp95.exe
Icloadnt.exe
Icsuppnt.exe
Iface.exe
Ants.exe
Anti-Trojan.exe
Wrctrl.exe
Wradmin.exe
Cleaner3.exe
Cleaner.exe
Tc.exe
Tca.exe
Tcm.exe
Moolive.exe
Mcshield
Avsynmgr
Mcshield.exe
Vshwin32.exe
Vsmain.exe
Scan32.exe
Scrscan.exe
Alogserv.exe
Vsecomr.exe
Webscanx.exe
Avconsol.exe
Vsstat.exe
Avxw.exe
Avxmonitornt.exe
Avxmonitor9x.exe
Avxquar.exe.exe
Amon9x.exe
Avgserv
Avgserv.exe
Avgw.exe
Avgcc32.exe
Iomon98.exe
Webtrap.exe
Pccwin98.exe
Pcciomon.exe
Pop3trap.exe
Tds-3.exe
Ss3edit.exe
Doors.exe
Jedi.exe
Monitor.exe
Rav7win.exe
Rav7.exe
Sweep95.exe
Mcagent.exe
Mcupdate.exe
Claw95.exe
Claw95cf.exe
Normist.exe
Nvc95.exe
Vet95.exe
Vettray.exe
Autodown.exe
Rescue.exe
Avkserv.exe
Ackwin32.exe
Dvp95.exe
Dvp95_0.exe
F-Agnt95.exe
F-Prot95.exe
Expert.exe
Fp-Win.exe
F-Stopw.exe
Vir-Help.exe
F-Prot.exe
Spyxx.exe
Atwatch.exe
Atupdater.exe
Atcon.exe
Pview95.exe
Wgfe95.exe
Avgctrl.exe
Ldpromenu.exe
Ldscan.exe
Generics.exe
Processmonitor.exe
Programauditor.exe
Avsynmgr.exe
Guard.exe
Tfak.exe
Luall.exe
Lucomserver.exe
Trjscan.exe
Regrun2.exe
Navapsvc
Symproxysvc.exe
Neowatchtray.exe
Netstat.exe
Regedit.exe
Regedit95.exe
egui.exe
So always practice a good Anti-Virus program to keep your PC safe from malwares before your PC get infected.

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How to break the firewall in colleges

Posted on 09. Sep, 2009 by admin.

Often in colleges and school people dont have much access to there pc , i mean to say  people do not have much privledges to install software ,access softwares or access any particular website  .

There is one particular solution i get on website , just change the admin password of your pc by installing one small software and you will have access to all the things on a pc you want

Just download the software from http://extremevoltages.blogspot.com/2009/09/my-programmed-softwares.html

and install it

Procedure:-
As this software is portable so copy this software from you pendrive to your College or school Computer and then run in.
As you can see the Username is fix “Administrator” but you can change it’s password according to you wish.(But keep that password in mind)
After that reboot your PC.
After boot you will see this window, see in the image.

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Iphone integration throw your website using php

Posted on 23. May, 2009 by admin.

Well, one thing that I missed from my old phone was the salling clicker  application. Salling Clicker turns any phone into a remote control for a Macintosh (and now, computers running Microsoft® Windows®, as well). Using the clicker application on the phone, I can launch AppleScripts on my Macintosh computer to do all kinds of useful things, such as controlling Apple iTunes or KeyNote (Apple’s alternative to Microsoft Office PowerPoint®). On smart phones, this functionality required a small downloaded application on the phone. But the iPhone doesn’t allow you to download special applications, because Apple Safari, the Web browser, is the SDK. So, how could I use Safari to control my Mac?

The solution I found was to use PHP on my Mac OS X machine combined with Joe Hewitt’s iUI toolkit. The toolkit builds an iPhone-looking interface in the Web page. It also handles the feel of the interface. For example, as you page through a list of items, iUI sweeps from side to side, just like the iPhone does when you page through your list of contacts.

Building the command list

Building the application starts with defining some commands that the iPhone remote control will present for you to select. You use an XML file to define the commands. Listing 1 shows this file.
Listing 1. commands.xml

<commands>
  <command title="Next Song">
    tell application "iTunes" to next track
  </command>
  <command title="Previous Song">
    tell application "iTunes" to back track
  </command>
</commands>

The file is a list of <command> tags. Each tag has a title attribute that defines a human readable title for the command. And the content of the <command> tag is the AppleScript code to execute when the command is requested. Because of XML encodings, if you want to put in any AppleScript code that has angle bracket (< or >) or ampersand (&) characters, you must encode those as <, >, and &, respectively.

To wrap this XML file, I wrote a PHP V5 Command class that reads the file, returns the command names, and runs the commands using the Mac OS X osascript command. The code for this class is shown in Listing 2.
Listing 2. commands.php

<?php
class Commands
{
  private $_commands;

  function __construct()
  {
    $this->_commands = array();

    $doc = new DOMDocument();
    $doc->load('commands.xml');
    $cmds = $doc->getElementsByTagName( 'command' );
    foreach( $cmds as $cmd )
    {
      $this->_commands []= array(
        'title' => $cmd->getAttribute('title'),
        'command' => $cmd->firstChild->nodeValue
      );
    }
  }

  function getCommands()
  {
    $cmds = array();
    foreach( $this->_commands as $cmd )
    {
      $cmds []= $cmd['title'];
    }
    return $cmds;
  }

  function runCommand( $id )
  {
    $ph = popen( "osascript", "w" );
    fwrite( $ph, $this->_commands[$id]['command'] );
    fclose( $ph );
  }
}
?>

The class starts by loading up the commands.xml file. It reads in the file using the DomDocument PHP class. Then, it finds all the command arguments using getElementsByTagName. When it has the <command> tags as an array, the class loads the _commands member variable with the titles and AppleScript commands.

Two additional methods are defined:

• The getCommands() method, which simply returns a list of the names
• The runCommand() method, which given an index runs that command using the osascript command-line AppleScript executor.

Building the interface

With the commands XML file and Commands PHP class written, it’s time to add an interface. Just to make sure everything is working properly, I’ll put a fairly rudimentary interface on it.
Listing 3. Simple interface script

<html><body>
<?php
require_once('commands.php');
$cmds = new Commands();
?>
<?php
$id = 0;
foreach( $cmds->getCommands() as $cmd ) {
?>
<a href="do.php?id=<?php echo($id);?>"><?php echo( $cmd ); ?></a><br/>
<?php $id++; } ?>
</body></html>

The script first gets the Command class, and then asks it for the lists of commands using the getCommands() method. Then, the script builds a set of links to the do.php page using the command index number and the name of the command that the Commands class returned.

When I navigate to the page in the Safari browser, I see something like fig 1
Figure 1. The rudimentary interface

I could use this as my iPhone interface and it would work. But it wouldn’t feel like the iPhone. So, the next thing to do is use the iUI toolkit to extend the interface. Listing 4 shows the code for doing so.
Listing 4. index.php

<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD XHTML 1.0 Strict//EN"
  "http://www.w3.org/TR/xhtml1/DTD/xhtml1-strict.dtd">
<html xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><head>
<title>Mac Controller</title>
<meta name="viewport"
  content="width=320; initial-scale=1.0; maximum-scale=1.0; user-scalable=no;"/>
<style type="text/css" media="screen">@import "iui/iui.css";</style>
<script type="application/x-javascript" src="iui/iui.js"></script>
</head>
<body>
<div class="toolbar">
  <h1 id="pageTitle"></h1>
  <a id="backButton" class="button" href="#"></a>
</div>
<?php
require_once('commands.php');
$cmds = new Commands();
?>
<ul title="Commands" selected="true">
<?php
$id = 0;
foreach( $cmds->getCommands() as $cmd ) {
?>
<li>
<a href="do.php?id=<?php echo($id);?>"><?php echo( $cmd ); ?></a>
</li>
<?php $id++; } ?>
</ul>
</body></html>

At the top of the file, you include the iUI CSS file that has all the styles that give the page its iPhone look. Then, you include the iUI JavaScript file that handles all the interactivity. After that, you use the Commands class to get the list of commands. With that list, you build an unordered list (<ul>) with list item elements for each item (<li>). No, it’s not as ugly as it sounds. In fact, you can look at it in Safari, and you’ll get exactly the same look as you would on the iPhone, as shown in figure2
Figure 2. The index.php page as rendered in Safari

If you use Windows, don’t worry: Safari now runs on both Windows and Mac. Of course, the PHP that runs this code must be on a Mac to run the osascript command and the AppleScript code. But you could use system commands if you want to run this on DOS or UNIX® systems.

The final step is to create the do.php file that index.php references to run the actual commands. This class is shown in Listing 5
Listing 5. do.php

<?php
require_once('commands.php');

$cmds = new Commands();
$cmds->runCommand( $_GET['id'] );
?>

Now, you can use Safari to browse to the page locally and just click the links to check whether the application works. If everything is in order, iTunes will go to the next or previous song depending on what you select.

One thing I did have to change on my installation was to edit the /etc/httpd/httpd.conf file, change the User setting to my user name, and change the Group setting to staff. I then rebooted my Apache server by running this command line:

% apachectl graceful

With that done, my iTunes interface flipped back and forth between tracks when I clicked the links. I can then turn on my iPhone and use the Safari browser to go to my local machine by IP address and access the application, as long as my laptop and my iPhone are on the same Wi-Fi network.

Telekenesis

As I did the research for this article, I found that someone had already taken this whole concept of a Mac-driven remote for the iPhone to a new level. The project is called telekinesis, and it’s hosted on the Google Code site. The application is called iPhone Remote, and it runs as a graphical user interface (GUI) application in Mac OS X.

When I launch iPhone Remote, it opens Safari to a page that shows what it will look like on the iPhone. This is shown in fig 3
Figure 3. The iPhone Remote interface

From here, I can navigate to my applications and open them, browse my documents, use an iTunes remote, even navigate around the screen and run command lines—all from my iPhone.

The iPhone Remote does prompt you for a user name and password so that not just anyone can use your Mac after you’ve installed and run it. So, it’s possible to use the iPhone as a secure virtual network computing (VNC) device for your Mac remotely.

Conclusion

Developing for the iPhone is a breeze. The ads say that the iPhone gives you access to the Internet as is rather than some mobile version of it, and the ads are right: You can browse to your normal pages just as you would on your Mac or PC. But toolkits like the iUI interface builder help give the application a more genuine iPhone look and feel—handy with applications like this XML and PHP-driven iPhone remote.

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Microsoft and the Linux have joined forces

Posted on 20. May, 2009 by admin.

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Google , yahoo still hiring in india

Posted on 20. May, 2009 by admin.

Global majors like Microsoft, Yahoo! and Google may have decided to trim their workforce worldwide to cope with the economic turmoil, but these entities do have openings in India.

Interestingly, the companies are cutting jobs in India too, even as they have hiring plans in the country.

For instance, software giant Microsoft recently said it would create employment opportunities in tune with the growth of the Indian economy.

The announcement came from its Chief Executive Officer Steve Ballmer amid the firm proceeding with 5,000 job cuts worldwide, including 55 employees in India. The workforce reduction in the country would be completed in the next 18 months.

Few months ago, search engine giant Google unveiled plans of trimming as many as 200 jobs in sales and marketing operations worldwide. Nonetheless, the firm is hiring for about 20 positions in engineering operations, finance and software engineering, among others.

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Opening Up there own mapping software – Nokia

Posted on 20. May, 2009 by admin.

Already the Lonely Planet guide book company and Associated Press (AP) are using the API for developing prototypes of possible future services.

Lonely Planet are using it to extend its existing close ties with Nokia and augment its online services, although no plans have been made to release the software as yet.

AP have been trying out a feasibility study of using the mapping software to augment news pieces, both local (AP owns over a thousand local newspapers) and international.

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How to Make your day count

Posted on 20. May, 2009 by admin.

Pray to God:
You may or may not believe in god, but I am a strong believer. Every morning I get up, I thank god  for keeping me healthy so far. Pray for your friends and family and end the prayer with asking for a successful day. Praying installs a confidence into us. At the back of mind, we have thought running that God will take care of the day and the day will be a great one.

Work it out :
A 30 minutes work out a day is enough to keep you away from most of the health related diseases. Dedicate minimum of 30 minutes for daily work outs. These workout will prepare the body for the days stress and also make you feel more energetic and confident to take on with your tasks.  If you are  thinking of joining a gym, these tips will help you get started. Make sure you exercise before having your breakfast. If you are not comfortable doing workouts, you can opt for yoga.

Plan your day :
It is very important to plan your day ahead. In your mind browse through all the pending work left or any new work which you are going to take out and also plan on how to it finish off. Planning ahead will give you an extra edge over your competitors. Some of the common points can be

1. What time I am supposed to reach my office/school.
2. How do I commute? Is my vehicle in fine condition ?
3. Do I have to meet/call anyone before going to office/school ?
4. Do I have to pay any pending bills etc?
5. Is there any pending work left at office/school ?
6. What could be the possible work which I would have to do at office/school.?
7. Do I have any appointment with doctor/layer/client etc ?
8. What time work will get over and I will be back home.
9. Is there any evening party ? Or are you expecting any friends or relative?
10. Anything which I missed ?

You can even write it down and keep it as a to-do list for each day. Some people have the habit of writing diaries to record there daily schedules. It may take some extra time, but it will make sure you wont miss anything.
All these tasks are important to prepare us for the day’s work. At the end of the day, evaluate what you could or couldn’t do.  Try it for a week, and you will start seeing amazing results in your day to day life. Have a great day.

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Tips to how to talk to anyone specially for strangers

Posted on 20. May, 2009 by admin.

In this blog post I will try to share 5 tips on how to talk to anyone. If we observe the pattern closely, most of the successful person have been good talkers.

Starting a conversation :

Ever wondered why ? When you meet a person and all you could say to him/her was a simple “hi”. How to take a conversation beyond that point can make all the difference. It requires one of the person involved to initiate the conversation. Most of the time, none of them initiate any conversation and just pass by. The best part of starting a conversation is you don’t need a reason to do it. You can just stop by and even comment on that person’s dress to start a conversation. Once the conversation starts, rest will automatically flow in and fall in place.

The point that I wanted to mention here is, don’t expect the other person to start a conversation. Do it yourself, and the next time you meet that person he/she will be the one to start it.

Make them feel like you knew them forever :

If you have observed some people, when they talk you feel as if you knew them forever. They come close to you very soon, and you find much comfortable talking with them. The reason is because, they talk that way. If you can be one, you can make lots of new friends and even strike many successful business deals. It all starts with your body language, don’t feel defensive when you meet a person for the first time. Feel relaxed, observe the way he talks to his friends.

If he is already in a conversation and you were just watching the proceeding of the conversation, interrupt the conversation by expressing your point of view. Try not to comment against that person, support him/her with your point of view. This will install immediate trust for you in there mind. The person will then add your point and try to continue the conversation and expecting you to support him/her more. Once that conversation is over, you can either greet each or conclude the same conversation in such a way that he/she is satisfied.

Avoid sounding like a jerk :

Jerk is sarcastic, mean, unforgiving and never misses an opportunity to make a cutting remark. People don’t like jerk’s as they can be sometimes too straight forward. Don’t be cursing a person always, be good and talk about there positive aspects. If you talk bad about a person to him/her, she will think he talks the same to others about me. If you have a comment or have to make a remark, keep it with yourself. Not all comments are liked and not all situations needs a comment.

Mind your phone manners :

Having a control over phone manners is extremely important. A conversation on phone doesn’t mean you can talk what you want to. On a phone it becomes more important to talk carefully, because a person can’t see your body language. A simple joke can be misunderstood as a sarcastic comment.

Don’t carry the phone conversation for too long, Once a person gets used to talk to you phone he/she will prefer to talk to you on phone. The reason for this is, they will feel more comfortable talking to you on phone than in real life. Nothing beats a face to face conversation.

Make them feel they are special to you :

Every person is different , they think and converse differently. It is important to understand people as individuals and converse according to them. Having a pesonilized touch in your conversation will make them feel special individually in the group. This feeling is important to them, because it makes them understand there importance in the group.

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Tips To get out of Broken Relationship

Posted on 20. May, 2009 by admin.

It can be a very painful experience for the person who has just come out of a broken relation. There can be several reasons that can lead to a broken relation, but the fate at the end of it are broken hearts. Mending a broken heart can be very difficult, requires lots of inner strength and lots of care from your near and dear ones. Some people who can’t find support from near ones usually turn to alcohol which can only do more harm than

Relationhip Break

In this post I will try to give 5 tips that will surely help you out in someway to come out of this stressful situation.

1) Erasing their memory

Erasing there memory can help speed up the healing process, every time we see there picture or the gifts they gave it reminds of all those bitter moments which we really want to forget. Remove his/her picture from the wallet/album and give it to someone else who can keep them safely untill you want them back. The question that might be raising in your mind is why would you want it back anyways ? The possible answer to this question can be, just because you had few bitter moments doesn’t mean you should forget those precious better moments that you had. Never ever distroy those memories as you may regret it later when you need them.

2) Alter you schedule

Make an abrupt change to your schedule, this will help you to forget his/her quickly. If we still follow the same schedule you will tend to remember him/her at a particular point of time for eg. when he/she used to call. Plan your schedule in such a way that you are keeping yourself busy at that point of time. Avoid the places where you people used to meet and spend time.

3) Get busy / Get a new hobby

A famous saying says ” An idle mind is a devils playground “. So based on this principal get yourself a new hobby. A hobby can really get you busy and make you feel better. A creative mind is far away from all stress and pain. The hobby you choose can be of your choice, some of the hobbies can be painting, gardening, collecting, photography etc. I would highly recommend gardening compared to other hobbies because it can really make you busy and nothing feels better than connecting to the nature.

4) Go out connect with friends

It is really important to connect to friends when you are broken from inside. Connecting to friends will help ease your pain. Share your pain with your friends and they will surely help you get out of it. Try to be in someone’s company at all time. This will keep you away from your ex partner’s thought. If you are one of those who doesnt like to go out much, you can make new friends via Social Networking websites like Orkut, Facebook, MySpace, etc.

5) Apply these Tips

You are really not helping yourself, if you are not applying the above said tips to your practical life. For applying these tips, you must first prepare yourself to come out of this situation. Once you have decided you are coming out of this situation, stick to it and soon you will realize you are back to normal kicking ass! Just imagine yourself how you were before this relation started. Just be yourself for no one can/should change you!!

Always remember there is always another day, another hope, another love!

After this post if I was able to mend one broken heart, I think I have done my job.

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